So many times, I have been asked how things are just so easy for me. How is it so easy to wear 24/7? How is it so easy to find a BIG to share so many years together? Where d I find my partner? How do I let myself go and become who I have always wanted to be? Hi Everyone I am Bwian. Sometimes I feel guilty that my life has been so easy. Easy to meet people, Easy to build a lasting relationship. How? I have found that it starts with loving yourself and realizing you are who you are. Build from there. I always knew that Iw as a gay diaper boy. I just am. I need to be diapered, it reduces my stress and it helps me to be efficient. I still have my own doubts about things, I do.... But I have to experience... Check things off the list. You need to too. it starts with a smile, it starts with a friendly hello. It starts by getting involved, sending a post or two. Have a process. When I started looking for a diaper boy to spend life with I only had the DPF newsletter. But, that was all I needed. I would go through and write LETTERS to those people with profiles that I thought were interesting. Each letter was a bit different. When people responded back I worked hard to stay in touch. The same things still apply. You would be amazed how by being honest with yourself how easy it is to find friends and to share time in life. Let your hair down, dream a bit... Then dream a lot. Welcome to DiaperGuys! Brian